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How to plan a Bachelorette Party
So your friend is getting married and you are named the hostess of
the Bachelorette Party. Your blood pressure rises, your nerves begin
to get frazzled, you get tongue tied...
How are you supposed to tell the bride-to-be you are not up to this
challenge? Well don't worry, you won't have to! With our Bachelorette
Party Planning Steps we make things easy for you! First
Step: Decide who you think the bachelorette would like
to have attend her party.
Of course all of the brides maids will be included, and if you are
not familiar with their names or addresses get a list from the brides
mother, or other close friends. Use these guests as a resource to
obtain the names of others. You will want to invite fun friends that
the bride-to-be will be inviting to the wedding. Second
Step: Think about how many people are invited and try
to decide on a plan of action. Questions to ask which would all be
rated on a scale of 1-5, 1 being "not at all" and 5 being "very much
so"
| How conservative is she? |
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| How would she respond to adult novelty party favors at the
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| Would she enjoy a male strippers performance? |
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| Would she like to participate in a scavenger hunt? |
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| Would she like to ride in a limousine? |
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| Would she like air travel? |
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| Would she enjoy dressing up in costume? |
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| Would she like a weekend away trip? |
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Third Step: After reviewing the answers
to the above questions, you can start to plan what it is you will
be doing, whether it be having a small gathering of friends and inviting
a psychic for the evening to flying to Las Vegas for a weekend of
all night parties! Try to keep in mind the ages of the guests and
whether or not you think they will be able to afford the festivities.
Fourth Step: The invitations and what
to include. There are many Online Shops that carry "Bachelorette Party
Invitations" that you can order and send out in the mail. There are
also email invitations if you are fortunate enough to have the email
addresses of those in attendance. Phone calls are more personal, and
if the party is large you can ask some of the other brides maids to
help out by giving them a list of the details, and names and phone
numbers for whom to contact, just make sure all the RSVP's come back
to you!
Depending on the party plans, it always seems easiest to ask for the
guests money in advance. Whether it be $30.00 for a simple home party
to $300.00 for a weekend getaway! Please make sure everything is spelled
out for the guest including what will be included in the amount given.
For example, Does the amount given include a gift for the bachelorette,
food and drink, transportation, tips, etc...
Next, tell them where you will meet with a map included for convenience.
General Tips:
If you are starting the party at home, you may want to ask the other
bridesmaids to help you with the cooking or decorating so it's not
such a huge project. For example: One person could be assigned to
be the games person, one person could make jello shooters, one person
could make the cake, etc...
Don't be afraid to ask others for their help, it actually makes the
party run a lot smoother!
Theme Parties are sure a lot of fun and sometimes easier to plan.
For example: if the Bride is marrying a man from Idaho you could create
a Potato theme! Have everyone bring in the most unusually shaped potato
they can find and have items available for decorating them. Potato
chips, potato salad, and any potato appetizers would all be appropriate!
Potato vodka could be used for the punch. Fill a Mister Potato Head
with Walnuts and have the guests guess how many nuts he has! Make
sure you have a fun present for the winner!
You could also go with a Career related theme, State related theme,
Drink theme etc... Games are a great way to break the ice and get
the party going! There are prepackaged games,books with games, or
just made up games. There are plenty of websites that offer free information.
Don't forget to include name tags if there are going to be people
who don't know each other. You may tell them to write down there real
names or to be creative and fun!
By following these easy steps, you can be the hostess of a very memorable
and fun bachelorette party! |
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